Not all strap ons are created equal. Most require harnesses and are fun to play with. But my really big strap "in" fills my pussy at the business end and rubs my clit and g spot when I jerk it off... in my crotchless panties. I even bang my boyfriend's ass with it. Would you bend over for a dirty talking sexy, busty Scottish girl in stockings and suspenders? I bet you would even love a reach around.